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Я живу в обычном городе, в котором редко происходят интересные события. Да, проходят спектакли, приезжают известные личности, но мало движения. Мне душно здесь, я задыхаюсь.
Переездом я загорелась 2 года назад, но тогда никто не воспринимал это всерьёз. Городом мечты стал Санкт-Петербург. Поступить в этот город – цель, которая обязательно должна исполниться.
Изначально были против все. Пытались отговорить от переезда. Это большой и сложный шаг для всех. Непросто принять родителям и родственникам тот факт, что дочь в 17 лет хочет покинуть родной дом, город, семью.
Что ждет после переезда?
- Возможности
Новый город дает нам шанс попробовать себя в чем-то новом и масштабном. Не упустите свою возможность и найдите, что будет вам по душе.
- Ответственность
Мы привыкли, что родители решают за нас бытовые вопросы. Так, в детстве мама за меня рисовала для школы, а я в это время спала. В университете мама не будет писать за вас курсовые и сдавать сессии. Все это будет вашей заботой.
- Новые люди и обстановка
Меняя круг людей, мы меняемся сами. Нам становится мало одного города и хочется расширять знакомства, интересы. Это эмоциональная встряска, которая не позволит сидеть на месте.
О неодобрении
Вас могут пытаться остановить. Преследуя цель, вы столкнетесь с людьми, которые найдут тысячи причин остаться дома. Остановить могут друзья, родственники, учителя и вы сами.
Мне говорили: «Зачем тебе все это?», «Проще поступить в родном городе, а в Питере слишком сложно», «Да нечего там делать, ничего интересного, ещё расстроишься и пожалеешь». Все это сильно влияет на подсознание, и такое постоянное накопление отрицательных эмоций может загубить заветные мечты. Когда говорят так при каждой встрече, начинаешь задумываться: «А может я и правда не способен, и мне нечего там делать?». Остановитесь! Здесь уже губите все вы. Общество только настраивает на такую неуверенную волну, а вы развиваете её дальше. Не давайте никому решать за себя! Возможно все, только нужно идти к этому.
Сюда подходит пример из известной книги «НИ СЫ»:
«Первое, с чем ты наверняка столкнешься, когда решишь освободиться от Большого Сони и менять жизнь к лучшему, – это неодобрение окружающих, которые продолжают спать. И первыми будут самые близкие люди, как бы грустно это ни звучало. Они могут выражать свое неудовольствие по-разному: злиться, обижаться, удивляться, критиковать, фыркать всякий раз, когда ты рассказываешь о своем новом бизнесе или новых друзьях, делать замечания, что ты стал не таким, как прежде, хмурить брови, поддразнивать и т. д.»
Большой Соня – та часть, которая отказывается следовать зову сердца. Это наш внутренний страх.
Как не поддаться отговоркам?
Самое важное – видеть цель. Если она неопределенная, то и ваша уверенность будет такой же. Четко обозначьте свое желание и вспоминайте об этом в моменты грусти.
Перестаньте смотреть на окружающих, у них своя жизнь и свой выбор – прокачивайте себя.
Пропускайте общественное мнение мимо ушей, но не забывайте, что отчасти можно прислушаться и получить дельные советы.
Как подготовить родителей?
Бывает, что родители не против переезда и с самого начала поддерживают ваше решение. Мои же были против, особенно папа.
Сначала они думали, что это мимолетная идея, но нет, все оказалось серьезно. На принятие ушло два года. Мы обсуждали, ругались. Только в этом учебном году родители одобрили идею переезда. Мама уже смирилась и начала доносить информацию до папы. Они стали интересоваться и узнавать, что нужно для переезда.
Папа и мама — не единственные, кто были против. Большая волна отговорок пришлась на весну-лето прошлого года. Когда мы собирались с классом в Питер, дедушка сказал, что нужно съездить и никогда туда больше не возвращаться, то есть, остаться дома.
Мне говорили, что журналистика – это не профессия, это ничто. Вот программист или юрист – профессия, а журналистика — позор. Журналистов критиковали и говорили, что они вечно лезут не в свое дело, и хочется плюнуть им в лицо.
Что делать, если все против?
Успокойтесь. Если это ваше решение, не давайте его оспорить. Прислушивайтесь, но не позволяйте подсознанию захватить идею, что ваша будущая профессия – вовсе не профессия.
Поговорите с семьей и предоставьте факты. Это необходимый шаг. Разговоры нужны, без них не будет никакого принятия.
Найдите компромисс. Договоритесь о планах, рассчитайте бюджет. Рассмотрите разные варианты, чтобы был выбор. Сначала можете предложить хотя бы парочку решений – это даст понять ваши намерения.
Не бойтесь говорить. Если молчать и поддаваться, то никогда не добьетесь целей.
Уезжать — это нормально
А почему нет? Что вас держит? Семья? Даже самые родные люди не должны лишать вас пути к осуществлению мечты. Они живут своей жизнью, и я знаю много примеров, кто оставался только для того, чтобы быть с семьей. Ничего плохого или хорошего, лишь упущенные моменты.
Мама сказала, что хочет, чтобы я всегда была рядом, чтобы мы часто виделись, но она понимает насколько это безумно. Конечно, привыкаешь, но это жизнь, которую вы приняли под давлением окружающих.
Будьте сильнее и верьте в свои возможности!
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