В современном мире очень популярно стало такое понятие, как «общественное мнение». Какую угрозу или какой вред может принести это человеку? Может ли человек обойтись без мнения окружающих в современном мире? И что нужно делать, чтобы не идти по пути безрассудных и неоправданных мнений? Именно над этой проблемой человечества я сегодня расскажу. 21 век очень сильно зависит от общественного мнения и именно в этом веке мы никак не можем без него обойтись. Ведь когда мы что-то делаем, мы же всегда спрашиваем идёт нам или нет, нравится ли то что мы сделали или опять же нет.
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Представим ситуацию, когда тебе очень хочется надеть какое-нибудь платье, но оно слишком открытое – «люди не поймут» и мы идем и надеваем то платье , какое бы хотели увидеть другие, будь оно будет не комфортным, зато оно нравится окружающим. Или же представим выпускника, который уже сдал ЕГЭ и собирается поступать на учителя физкультуры. И что на это заявление могут сказать родители? Что за профессия , нужно на врача идти и все в том духе.
Человек, слушая такое мнение, идёт на врача, ведь по мнению родителей, это очень престижная профессия. Все это и говорит о том, что человек, завися от общественного мнения, не может полностью развиваться, не может делать так, как угодно ему, а не другим, не может жить полной жизнью, ведь люди этого не смогут понять.
Знаете, мне понравилось одно высказывание, которое должно дойти до каждого человека:
«Единственное, что мне в вас не нравится это ваше вечное: «Что скажут люди.» «Люди» не строят вашу жизнь. А уж мою и подавно. Прежде всего думайте о себе. Вы сами должны устраивать свою жизнь. Неужели вы допустите, чтобы между вами и вашим желанием становилось то, что подумают другие? «
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Ты – личность, индивидуальность. Ты не должен позволять себе принимать это мнение. Люди, как говорили, так и будут говорить, ведь нужно понять одну простую истину, что людьми , в таком случае, управляют зависть и нежелание налаживать свою жизнь. Они несчастны в своей жизни, и поэтому хотят таким способом навязать вам своё же мнение, которое должно , по-видимому, помочь вам. А вам оно ничем не поможет.
В случае с выпускником: да, нам всегда говорили, что нужно слушаться родителей, но есть один момент, когда нужно «слушаться» и когда нужно «прислушиваться». Прислушиваться к советам родителей важно, но тебе не обязательно следовать по тому принципу, который будем угоден им, а не тебе. Если тебе нравятся все профессии с творчеством иди на эти профессии, ведь это жизнь твоя, ведь тебе работать по выбранной специальности, а не родителям. Ключевое слово «Тебе». Ты не должен делать так, как хотят этого окружающие.
Если тебе нравятся платья с вырезом-надевай, хочешь перекраситься в розовый- красься, хочешь петь, но для этого у тебя нет хорошего вокала-пой. Жизнь даётся нам всем на короткий срок и этот срок нужно прожить так, как хочешь этого ты, а не окружающие.
Не нужно слушать тех, кто совершенно ничего не добился в этой жизни, даже если твои поступки приведут тебя к ошибкам, умей признать эти ошибки и двигаться дальше. Но знай, что это твои ошибки, а не чьи то, что ты сам должен пропустить их через себя, и понять где ты был не прав.
Умей не слушать пустых слов и разговоров, будь индивидуальным, не похожим на остальных, и тогда у тебя все получится. И самое главное- не давай другим людям убить в себе настоящую индивидуальную личность, не доводи себя до депрессии и психического срыва. Просто пойми, что эти люди в твоё жизни ничего не значат, а их слова и подавно.
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Хочу обратиться к вам, читатели. Умейте смело принимать критику в ваш адрес, но принимайте её не близко к сердцу. Вы должны помнить, что только от вас самих зависит ваша жизнь. Кто, если не ты обустраиваешь свою жизнь, учишься чему-то новому, делаешь ошибки. Все пустые слова, которые летят в ваш адрес, не должны разрушить вас, они должны вернуться к тем, кто их сказал и показать им то, что их мнение никому и не важно. И только тогда, когда ты сможешь отвечать своим недоброжелателям , тогда ты и поймешь, что ты можешь быть счастливым.
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